My sister stayed 1 hour

My sister lasted 1 hour in her room last night. At least I had my time to do what I needed to do. 


I love my sister. It's complicated cuz she's not my real sister. My dad adopted her when he married her mom. So I'm told at my age getting new feelings like I have about the past year it's normal to feel that way about her. It's not just that. Something new I need to think about. My mom died when I was 2 and when I was 5 my dad introduced me to my step mom who is my sisters mom. She died last winter. Now I don't have a mom again. I was told I might have issues from being abandoned and not having that mom connection. I'm also like trying to get that from my sister. This is some deep stuff if it's true. It's kinda hard to believe but I can see it being the reason. 


There's this girl on here that has something like fatherless daughter syndrome and I'm trying to find out more about it. I think she goes to public school and has a bf so I'm sure she's to busy to talk about it. Is there a motherless son syndrome? That would be good to know. 


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Propinquity
Propinquity

1 hour is a good start. If it has to start at 1 hour then 1.5 hours and so on then do that.
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09

Yes, Motherless Son Syndrome is a thing. I just googled it.Hers what is says -( Motherless sons are boys or men who have lost their mothers either through death, abandonment, or estrangement. Maternal loss can have profound and long-lasting effects on a son's emotional, psychological, and social development.) I understand the whole not have a mother thing. I havent seen my mom in 8 years and my step-mom doesnt seem like a mom at all.
Rotten4life
Rotten4life

I think that's gross but hey, to each their own right? I can see how she needs someone around and if a little time each week and then more the next is what's going to do it then go for it.