My next chapter!!!
Normally when I get a letter from my husband I am expecting the worse before I even open the letter. ( I have to stop that). Normally when I expect the worse then that is what I have my mind set on..THE WORSE. Now I have been going over some of his older letters. Now don't get me wrong in some he was being an "ASSHOLE" but in some he was asking basic questions and I blew up and wrote him back immediately YELLING. I have learned now to READ his letters. wait a few hours before I respond. That way if I am mad I have had time to cool down. I'm not saying it is all my fault but for piece of mind I have to work on ME since my husband is not presently around.
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I think that is a good idea. Sometimes I read things my guy tells me and I get really angry. Writing while angry isn\'t ever a good thing... Also, when he is mad at me and isn\'t calling...I\'ll profusely write how sorry and upset I AM... He gets irritated to see that all the time so i need to learn not to do that... You are going to get through this.. just we both have to learn to cope and deal with issues of this kind a little better!