My mood now about hearing the lies

Something new has been going on. Now when I get lied to by my husband (cause now in my head the probability of him lying is like >80% chance) I no longer sit and wonder is it true?? is he lying?? should I believe in him?? Now it's more of a rage that no, I'm not gonna swallow the lies like I have in the past. And if he tries interjecting and explaining away, I'm like "nope, don't wanna hear it, nothing you say will change my mind, nope, nope, nope". I've gone from wanting to hear his explanation to just saying, "no thanks, don't need you to explain, it is what it is, you decided to go down that route, now live with the repercution, nope, don't wanna hear anything from you". And I can see the wheels turning in his head, he's like 'wow, nothings working, but why? it used to work before..?' I can see he's more upset that his scheme or maybe he thinks his "charm" over me in a sense, the same charm that had worked for so many years is no longer working!! And he is in awhhh.... He's like 'what is going on??' Why has she stopped believing in my lies??? Hello!!!! Do you hear yourself "why won't you believe in my lies anymore?" Now that is the stupidest question for you to be asking me!!! And it just blows my mind how this is what it takes for you to finally get what it feels like to be lied to. Now you know what I've been feeling on my end this whole time I've been discovering your lies. The feeling of how dare you do that to me, to the person you claim to love. How dare I not believe in your lies, the irony!!!!