My life story if you want to know...
For the first 3 years of my life I lived with my biological mom and dad. Then they got divorced and I would spend the school year with my mom and the summer in texas with my dad and his new girlfriend. But one year my big sister wanted to try school in texas, so the when the summer was over we just stayed in texas for the school year. I was in 2nd grade at this time. We all ended up like it. In the summer we went to Arizona with our mom and my step-mom was pregnant and was trying to keep it a secret from my biological mother and me being 6 or 7 at the time started to whisper to my big sister and my mom wanted to know what I was talking about... and I said "if I tell you Erica(my step-mom) will get mad at me". at I started sobbing and I ended up telling her.
My mom took my dad to court very soon after that and she ended up losing and also losing custody of me and my older siblings so we moved to text and never saw our mother again. And in 2017, my little brother was born and my step-mom and my dad got married. Me and my older siblings ( Becca and Kaden) had to start watching my little broter everyday and then 3 years later my step-mom got pregnant again and we had to watch him everday too. In 5th grade one of my best-friends died in a UTV accident. And when Covid started we became homeschooled and we started getting introuble alot more. And my dad and step-mom started to get a little abusive to me only. And now I live my everyday life getting introuble and watching my 2 little brothers and doing chores.
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I'm sorry you experience abuse. =(
It's okay. i am getting through it. The other day my step-mom tried to beat me up and I pushed her off of me and I told her to fuck off. But after that I ended up being grounded with nothing in my room.
Thanks for sharing a bit about your life. It sounds like you have your hands full. I'm very sorry about the loss of one of your best friends in a UTV accident. I'd imagine you still miss them a lot.
Why did your biological mom lose custody of you? Is there a reason why you are no longer able to see her (for example, were her parental rights terminated)? Do you miss her?
Abuse isn't OK or something to "get through." Have you told your dad that your mom is trying to beat you up? When you say your dad is being "a little abusive" to you only, what is he doing?
Feel free to ignore some/all of my questions. I'm just concerned. Hugs.
Of course, I miss her. The reasons she lost custody is because, my dad made it seem like she was a unfit mother and the she was drunk everyday. Which was wrong. He wasn't there so he didn't actually know. I hate him sometimes.
Yes, my dad knows about my step-mom trying to beat me up, he said it was my fault for not listening. My dad has thrown stuff at my face, that's what I mean. And he doesn't do it to any of my other sibling and I am glad. It just me instead of everyone else.
I am happy that you asked questions, feel free to ask anymore. Hugs. Thank You.
I'm sorry that your mom lost custody of you. Did the court set up a regular visitation schedule? I wish you were able to see her. Your dad shouldn't be throwing anything at you, nor excusing your stepmom's behavior. She doesn't have the right to hurt you, no matter your behavior. She's the adult and should act like one. Hugs.
No, the court didn't set up a regular vistitation. Hugs. Thank you for all your support.