My Journey So Far

April 1st was my rebirth day.  And now, nearly two weeks later, I'm back to living my life and feeling better.  I think it was a good idea to write my vision statement saying that I was moving on.  It gave me a kick start.  I find that I've been able to compartmentalize my grief.  I'm able to look at it, miss my husband, and at the same time move on. It's a strange feeling, but it's not like I'm doing anything different with my life.  I'm still working.  Still doing basically the same things, but I'm more accepting of where I am now.  I know who I am.  In the past, I spent my days thinking of all I've lost.  Replaying scenes from my marriage.  But not now.  I've moved on. 
So, I've come to think that writing a vision statement is the best thing anyone can do.  Do it if you want a new job.  Do it if you're wanting something in your life.  And say it out loud.  God said let there be light.  He didn't think it.  He said it, making the light come by his command.  So I say command your life.  If you're feeling depressed.  Say I'm not depressed.  Say it until it becomes real.  Make it real.