my inlaws

Im so frustrated today with my inlaws. First off my daughters birthday is the friday after thanksgiving and all she has been asking for is a tea party at american girl store at mall of america. I was like so easy I said bring 3 friends and grandma and i will take you. She wanted here cousin Kelsey to come who is also 8 and very girlly. I asked my sister in law and she said no we dont like that stuff and think everything with it is stupid. ok whatever isnt it Sams birthday? Its what she wants well it wouldnt be fair to kelsey because she wants a doll and we wont get her one. Ok what ever!!! Then my poor daughter comes home from grandpas and is upset that we are moving and grandpa thinks its stupid. Mind you we lost our home we are not just upgrading we tried everything to stay here so know we have decided to move on and be positive and excited. But as far as the kids we have acted like its exactly what we want. I was hoping my father in law could act the same no matter what his opinion was. My poor husband has a horrible family thank god for his mom who is so sweet. I just really had to vent thanks for being there