My hair loss

hey guys, I'm new to this as of today and wanted to tell a little bit of my story after reading so many about different people and their hair loss. I'm now 32, at age 24 I was diagnosed with SEVERE R/A, I started with humera, then enbrel and finally went to remicade infusions. I was on them about 8 months when I noticed a quarter sized spot on the back of my head where the hair was missing. Went to the dr, yea allopecia.... right..... as months went on it spread and spread until ALL hair was COMPLETELY gone. 100% bald. Around month 18 I got extremely ill. I somehow developed gastritis and my entire body had been taken over by " something" and I was bed ridden for 3 months straight, from June till sept 2017. Little before this time and during this time until present day more and more hair fell out. What other hair is there to fall out? You might ask, you already said you were bald, yea well it spread to my face, and I loved my 5 o'clock shadow look so that really pissed me off, then eyelashes, eyebrows, went, pissed me off Econ more because now I look like my head was singed off in an oven explosion, then my chest, back, even my groin!!!! That doesn't bother me so much cause I'm a younger generation and I shave there anyways but this thing is like waxed now, and fresh daily, and now it's spreading to my legs which have about 50% coverage left and my arms which have about 70% left. HAS ANYONE ELSE OUT THERE HAD ANY KIND OF EXPERIENCE LIKE THIS FROM REMICADE TREATMENTS???please let me know. Obviously they immediately took me off the remicade when I was sick and hospitalized, oh I forgot to mention I went from a solid 5"11, 220lb handsome dude to a 160lb guy that looks like an alien. I'm EXTREMELY uncomfortable, I refuse to go to weddings with my wife, I don't like going anywhere without sunglasses and a hat and I'm just about at wits end here. I'm on all kinds of steroid creams but so far no luck. It's only been about 40 days since being off the remicade and I'm now on another infusion med, Orencia, supposedly its milder and they say "hopefully" my follicles aren't permenamtlt damaged. Can anyone relate or weigh in on this? Thanks, and good luck to everyone here. OH and I called bullshit on the dermatologist the second visit back with her Mickey Mouse degree and assuming " oh, it's alopecia, that's that" jacking my head 50-100 times with a needle injection of steroids and kicking me out the door.... sometimes you really do know your own body better than some care less dr. Thanks guys