My first phone encounter

well, tonight was the first time she let me say anything to her about anything.  of course I blew off everything I felt, but her words to me were that I should have known this from the beginning.  Wow, If i wouldve known that, I would have never said I DO.
So the reason she called was to tell me she couldnt come down this weekend for her visit because her money had been held up.
I suppose I need to get a journal and record all this stuff.  I should go ahead and ask the lawyer to get the text messages her and ex texted to each other.  I feel like such an idiot for not seeing this, and for that matter, seeing who she really is before.
and well, i heard her voice and its not of the woman I married.  the ex's voice it sounded like.
and for that matter, he was sitting in the same room listening .  I wont say anything anymore to her except through the lawyer.  I am going to do this from now on. (I hope i can keep my word on this until the big d)