My First Fight
I had an online fight last night with a girl who has been asking for Tarot readings to investigate some online crushes she has been having. When I relaised she was married and what the implications of that were I decided I didn't want to be involved.
She accused me of being a hypocrite-that all of us fall from grace. Further she accused me of wanting to use my DS friends to show me round . She said I'd asked that she do thisbut I'm sure I didn't/
This fight left mefeeling pretty bad. I blocked her ranting and have decided to be clear what my boundaries are and to stick with them.
I have to go now. Having atrip to see Nicola today.
Fun!
She accused me of being a hypocrite-that all of us fall from grace. Further she accused me of wanting to use my DS friends to show me round . She said I'd asked that she do thisbut I'm sure I didn't/
This fight left mefeeling pretty bad. I blocked her ranting and have decided to be clear what my boundaries are and to stick with them.
I have to go now. Having atrip to see Nicola today.
Fun!
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That\'s just too weird. Sounds like you handled it well though. Well done.
she said sorry so we\'ll see how it goes from now on. I like her and want to be friends.
Remember, this place is the \"House of Sand and Fog\". Anybody can be anything here. It usually takes a long time to really get to know someone, and DID is lots more common here than in real life. (Multiple Personality; dissociative identity disorder) And, of course, there are quite a few who come here seeking romance outside of marriage. Sounds as if you are dealing skillfully with a difficult acquaintance.
Thanks Bob Disassociative identity disorder-must Wiki it.
Cheers
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