My dilemna about true honesty in our Gamblers Anonymous program.

     I attended one of my G.A. meetings Sunday evening. Like usual I show up about 30 minutes early to help set up the room for our meeting. Before the meeting had started there were 4 of us talking (3 women and 1 man, me being the man). One of the women spoke up and said she and her husband went to a function they had paid for. It was one of those type of functions that if you pay the price to enter you are automatically put into their raffle chances for the evening. This female was working towards having 90 days clean. She told us that she won a boom-box and was so happy about it. Not realizing she had broken one of the regulations of our program. Both of the other women new what she had done and explained to her what she had done. Then she wanted to know if she had to start over with a new clean date? Everyone in the program knows the answer to this is yes. But one of the women told her she was not her sponsor and that she needed to speak to her sponsor. The other woman was her sponsor and she told her she could slide this time but to never let it happen again or she would have to start over with her clean time. I kept my mouth shut but I know that is not the correct way to work the program. If it is I would like to know where to go to get my free pass for one evening for I could go play blackjack and not lose my clean time. If I went out to play I would have to start over. Our key words in our program are Honesty, Open-mindedness, and Willingness. Where is the Honesty in this situation? I have known many people that had to start over in this exact same situation. I do not think I am being Honest with myself if I let this woman slide on her decision. I know what she decided because when the meeting began and she stated her clean time it was the same date as before not 4-5-2015 which it should of been. Should I call her on being dishonest. If she does this, every time I hear her state her clean time my stomach will turn. We are suppose to be trying to better ourselves. Let me know what everyone might think on this situation.