my brother

My brother is going through  a really hard time . he took a plea deal for  somthing that should have been looked at as trying to do the right thing . but  hes now a sex offender for  life . how do i tell my brother that everything is going to be ok ? knowing that his life is over  with the  stingma  that will fallow him for life . see where he  live it life. for just talking  to a girl  that had issues . yes her  age is a factor  in  his case . he would never  hurt a child but  yet he is  braking  from this . he stays locked in his apartment  a lone  hes so tired and just wants it all to end  . the funny thing is that  is own family  wouldn't  even come see him  in court . but  give him  crap about  his life and the one time  he really  need them .  they  just didn't want to deal  with it  he figures   he better off dead. to me i love him and i know her would never hurt a child  or a  12 year old girl for that matter . and yes he helped out a lot of 18 and 17 year olds  and a 20  year old  girl that  had no place  to go . but  dose  that make  him a bad person? why  does  this  have to make  his life a living hell  . why cause  he was trying to help some one any yes he mand some  mistakes when talking to her on face book asked her questions that he shouldn't  have but to lable  him a sex offender  for  life  . i think is  wrong  but hes not  serving  his  time on probation out side  prison  thank  god for that  but  he  feels likehis life is over not relationship what woman wound want a man  that has that stigma .