ok. so it's been about two months now and i'm doing pretty well. i'm not with the girl i cheated on, and i'm not with the girl i cheated on her with. i tried it but it didn't work out at all. i'm with the girl i dated a year ago. she moved away in august and just moved back this past weekend. she's helped me thru all this stuff with my ex and she does care about me. and even tho i was with this other girl i always thought about her. so we got back together after a year of being away from each other. i'm really really happy with her.