Moving On, or at least trying to...
Well, I have decided to pick myself up off of the floor. I am moving on!! I've just had enough of his crap finally. Last night, he called over and over again. He kept on making excuses for why he was calling. He kept on yelling. Why doesn't he freakin' get it?? I mean, no one can be THIS crazy, can they?? He still doesn't understand what he's done wrong, or what he's STILL doing wrong. Anyways, I went out shopping with a friend of mine tonight (Had fun! Thanks hun!!). I didn't buy much, but I did wander into the halloween section and I found myself a tiara lol! Wow I'm weird! I'll post a pic later I guess. But it seems to be in agreement between my guy friends, my brother, my father, and my daddy (step-dad), that my husband messed with the wrong princess!! So, I got myself a tiara (with my friend laughing at me about it), and I wear it with pride!! Too bad for my husband, I guess everyone knows what he lost, but he still has no clue? I've got big plans this week coming up, and you all will be hearing about them! YAY ME!!! *OK, if I sound stuck on myself, that isn't the case. I just finally feel like I AM worth it to other people, and I'm SOOOOO tired of listening to his put-downs and constant criticism...*
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I would love to see a pic of you in a Tiara... LMAO!!!
Oh Melinda good to hear you have picked yourself up and started looking at the bright side of it. The men who do this don\'t realize what they have and good she is and in the end it is their lose and someone else\'s gain. So keep going in a positive direction. I can\'t wait to see you in your tiara.
YAY YOU!!!
You deserve a tiara. (He deserves a duncecap.)
He will NEVER get what he lost..You read Lundy Bancrofts book..keep rereading it honey..I have it too and live with emotional abuse melinda...I have marked up every page! My husband fits soooo many of his discriptions. It was never and is NOT about LOVE..it is about control and posession....
I am so proud of hoe far you have come..Please dont go back..keep looking ahead...it gets better..try and go to the support meetings and be good to yourself...you deserve so much more and so does Jonathan !
I LOVE the TIARA..so much in fact..I think I will go get one for myself.
Maybe every woman who is or has been in an abusive relationship should get one and wear it...I think you startted something..if so..You will be the Queen Bee !! Lots of Love..Serenity55
You have no idea how happy you make me to read these words that came from you!! The read that you are finally ready to break yourself free of this asshole!! I am so proud of you, I\'m about to cry. There are many many good things to come for you. You deserve so much more and it will come...in time. Love ya much and I\'m always here cheering you on.
Remember this day and this feeling. Call it up from your memory every time he calls.
I am very happy that you sound so strong.
Y E S
Y E S
Y E S
Y E S !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1