Moving in a Positive Direction
Everything is going better since the full disclosure about both affairs (one with sex and one without). It is also really helping me that he finally came clean about his. We are rebuilding together. We are on the same page for the first time in a long time. I still have a ways to go with my lying, but I am doing much better. I am heavily encouraged. The open sharing and healing, forward-facing attitude that we both have is making all of the difference. I also know for the first time that he will fight for me. He is holding be accountable and helping me with this program and other issues as well. I am working on not only honesty, but on making him feel important, valued, and keeping our relationship private. I truly believe that we can make it.
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