Movies of my ex's misbehavior (and mine)
I'm tired of protecting her. She promised me, "If you leave me, I'll make sure you never see your daughter again." She kept her promise.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1tTZ6ymcf4
HR: “Why is it OK for you to say all these wicked things, but you’re mad at me because I made a list? Why is that? Stop [saying] this stuff. You’re lashing out at me [and you’re] trying to control me. If I leave you, you’ll sell me out to my ex-wife. If I leave you, you’ll destroy my stuff. If I leave you – if I walk out of the house and go see my friend, then you’ll break up with me. How do you think that sounds to me? How do you think that makes me feel?”
RC: “Well, it’s, it’s, because of the way that you –“
HR: “Answer me!"
(She never denied saying any of that stuff. Instead of denying it, she justified it.)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XxD518uZ3dU
HR: “Are you seriously telling me that because I want to hang out with Wesley, you’re breaking up with me?"
RC: “Yes, I am, Hugo, because –“
HR: “Then we have a major problem.”
RC: “No, because you are doing this on purpose. You are being an asshole on purpose."
HR: “I want to see Wesley.”
RC: “No, you don’t!”
HR: “Are you really telling me that if I leave the house to go see Wesley, my friend, that you will break up with me?”
RC: “Yes.”
HR: “OK. I consider that unreasonable. […] I feel controlled. I feel I’m being controlled.”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nexY3LlWA8
Favorite quote:
HR: “You’ve told me I’m an asshole. You’ve told me I’m a prick, I’m a pussy, I disappoint you every day, I need to grow a pair of balls, I don’t want to be with you, I don’t love you, I never talk to you, i’m a dictator, when you open up about your needs and wants I use them against you, I don’t take ownership of the things I do, I think everyone else is unimportant, I think I’m superior, I lie to you constantly every day, I put you second to college, I bail on everything I commit to, I have no remorse, and I have no conscience. So, could we maybe –“
RC: “Er, first of all, I have not said any of those things since I promised you that i wouldn’t [say them anymore].”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1tTZ6ymcf4
Favorite quote:
RC: “I have to go to the doctor in San Francisco because you, every f***ing day, make me feel like s***. You make me feel worthless.”
HR: “Then we need to break up, if I’m so horrible. So, I’ll take my stuff and go.”
RC: “You said you would delete your little list [of stuff I had said]. Did you? No.”
HR: “Yes, I did. Then, you said more horrible s*** that I should write down, so I wrote it down again. […] Why is it OK for you to say all these wicked things, but you’re mad at me because I made a list? Why is that?”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3sefbdzkBaM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vEHdgBmybwk
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1X4XeGtvJQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXKZxqGpTFo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FgB3iN0Ezhg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=imcOnqA6cxo
07/16/2011
Reanna, 2011-07-16 @ 15:02, part 1
Reanna, 2011-07-16 @ 15:02, part 2
Reanna, 2011-07-16 @ 15:02, part 3
Reanna, 2011-07-16 @ 15:02, part 4
Reanna, 2011-07-16 @ 15:02, part 5
06/08/2011
Reanna 08/06 part 1
Reanna 08/06 part 2
Reanna 08/06 part 3
03/07/2012
Movie on 3-7-12 at 3.30 PM.mov – "I found the money. You're welcome."
Reanna 07mar2012.m4v – "I'm articulating my needs. I need to be away from you."
03/18/2012
Movie on 3-18-12 at 8.30 PM.mov – I'm being lectured because my daughter was 'rude' to my ex (and I didn't notice at the time)
03/31/2012
Movie on 3-31-12 at 6.06 PM.mov – "Who the f*** died and made you the arbiter of how I train to become a psychotherapist? What happened? You f***ed Carl Rogers?"
04/11/2012
Movie on 4-11-12 at 8.58 PM.mov
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1tTZ6ymcf4
HR: “Why is it OK for you to say all these wicked things, but you’re mad at me because I made a list? Why is that? Stop [saying] this stuff. You’re lashing out at me [and you’re] trying to control me. If I leave you, you’ll sell me out to my ex-wife. If I leave you, you’ll destroy my stuff. If I leave you – if I walk out of the house and go see my friend, then you’ll break up with me. How do you think that sounds to me? How do you think that makes me feel?”
RC: “Well, it’s, it’s, because of the way that you –“
HR: “Answer me!"
(She never denied saying any of that stuff. Instead of denying it, she justified it.)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XxD518uZ3dU
HR: “Are you seriously telling me that because I want to hang out with Wesley, you’re breaking up with me?"
RC: “Yes, I am, Hugo, because –“
HR: “Then we have a major problem.”
RC: “No, because you are doing this on purpose. You are being an asshole on purpose."
HR: “I want to see Wesley.”
RC: “No, you don’t!”
HR: “Are you really telling me that if I leave the house to go see Wesley, my friend, that you will break up with me?”
RC: “Yes.”
HR: “OK. I consider that unreasonable. […] I feel controlled. I feel I’m being controlled.”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nexY3LlWA8
Favorite quote:
HR: “You’ve told me I’m an asshole. You’ve told me I’m a prick, I’m a pussy, I disappoint you every day, I need to grow a pair of balls, I don’t want to be with you, I don’t love you, I never talk to you, i’m a dictator, when you open up about your needs and wants I use them against you, I don’t take ownership of the things I do, I think everyone else is unimportant, I think I’m superior, I lie to you constantly every day, I put you second to college, I bail on everything I commit to, I have no remorse, and I have no conscience. So, could we maybe –“
RC: “Er, first of all, I have not said any of those things since I promised you that i wouldn’t [say them anymore].”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1tTZ6ymcf4
Favorite quote:
RC: “I have to go to the doctor in San Francisco because you, every f***ing day, make me feel like s***. You make me feel worthless.”
HR: “Then we need to break up, if I’m so horrible. So, I’ll take my stuff and go.”
RC: “You said you would delete your little list [of stuff I had said]. Did you? No.”
HR: “Yes, I did. Then, you said more horrible s*** that I should write down, so I wrote it down again. […] Why is it OK for you to say all these wicked things, but you’re mad at me because I made a list? Why is that?”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3sefbdzkBaM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vEHdgBmybwk
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1X4XeGtvJQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXKZxqGpTFo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FgB3iN0Ezhg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=imcOnqA6cxo
07/16/2011
Reanna, 2011-07-16 @ 15:02, part 1
Reanna, 2011-07-16 @ 15:02, part 2
Reanna, 2011-07-16 @ 15:02, part 3
Reanna, 2011-07-16 @ 15:02, part 4
Reanna, 2011-07-16 @ 15:02, part 5
06/08/2011
Reanna 08/06 part 1
Reanna 08/06 part 2
Reanna 08/06 part 3
03/07/2012
Movie on 3-7-12 at 3.30 PM.mov – "I found the money. You're welcome."
Reanna 07mar2012.m4v – "I'm articulating my needs. I need to be away from you."
03/18/2012
Movie on 3-18-12 at 8.30 PM.mov – I'm being lectured because my daughter was 'rude' to my ex (and I didn't notice at the time)
03/31/2012
Movie on 3-31-12 at 6.06 PM.mov – "Who the f*** died and made you the arbiter of how I train to become a psychotherapist? What happened? You f***ed Carl Rogers?"
04/11/2012
Movie on 4-11-12 at 8.58 PM.mov
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