More Drama
After the whole ordeal of breaking it off with my best friend of 17 years in March due to her unsavory behavior (see previous posts for details on that) among other things I have been on mend these past few months. Of course like any relationship that abruptly ends I had to work through some things. However, I am proud as to how I have been handling such a huge loss. No doubt it does bother me she would behave the way she did and that she so easily tossed me aside. I am working through the hurt feelings and remaining positive. I am actually enjoying my life without the drama and strife she brought. Every time I am down and I miss her I remind myself that for what little positive she brought to my life it never kept all the negative crap she has done at bay. She is just a person I do not wish to have in my life UNLESS there are huge changes in our relationship. Obviously, she doesn’t wish to change or I wouldn’t be writing this.
Yesterday evening I was on facebook when I got an IM from an acquaintance that is my ex best friends hubands band mate/ buddy. He did some small talk and then out of no where he asked me if Meg and I where not speaking or what. I told him point blank that as far as I know we were not speaking and then asked him why would he ask such a thing. He said he was having a bonfire at his place and asked Meg to invite me but she said we weren’t speaking much. He then asked why. I said point blank “Misunderstandings happen and sometimes friendships arent strong enough to get through them. She was my friend for 17 years and like a sister to me. I miss her but that is life. I wish her nothing but the best because she deserves it.” He agreed with my statement and then suddenly had to get off line.
I know that was a total set up. I know that most likely Megs husband sent his friend in to do a little spying. The thing that ticks me off…We are not in high school anymore. If she wants to talk to me she knows my number and where I live as does her husband. Thus this is one of reasons why I had to walk away from it all. We are two different people with different ideas on how to handle things.
Part of me wanted to text her and call her out on it. A major part of me jus doesnt want the drama. Yeah, I do miss her but I do not want her in my life right now. So, I will continue healing and moving on knowing next time not to respond to the annoyances.
Hope all is well!
<3 Rea
Yesterday evening I was on facebook when I got an IM from an acquaintance that is my ex best friends hubands band mate/ buddy. He did some small talk and then out of no where he asked me if Meg and I where not speaking or what. I told him point blank that as far as I know we were not speaking and then asked him why would he ask such a thing. He said he was having a bonfire at his place and asked Meg to invite me but she said we weren’t speaking much. He then asked why. I said point blank “Misunderstandings happen and sometimes friendships arent strong enough to get through them. She was my friend for 17 years and like a sister to me. I miss her but that is life. I wish her nothing but the best because she deserves it.” He agreed with my statement and then suddenly had to get off line.
I know that was a total set up. I know that most likely Megs husband sent his friend in to do a little spying. The thing that ticks me off…We are not in high school anymore. If she wants to talk to me she knows my number and where I live as does her husband. Thus this is one of reasons why I had to walk away from it all. We are two different people with different ideas on how to handle things.
Part of me wanted to text her and call her out on it. A major part of me jus doesnt want the drama. Yeah, I do miss her but I do not want her in my life right now. So, I will continue healing and moving on knowing next time not to respond to the annoyances.
Hope all is well!
<3 Rea
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