More Changes
Well there are so many changes lately,Tim and I have changed the wedding to Jan 25,2014,It will be a small country wedding here in the smoky mtns of TN. We are lease purchasing a home that has 3 bedrooms,2 baths and we are enclosing the basement to make 2 more bedrooms,bath Christmas room,and playroom for his 7 yr old granddaughter.She calls me Nana.She loves Aunt Courtney and Uncle Trey too. Everything should be great,but we have one big problem,the X wife,she tries to make life a nightmare for all of us,she is married to an x con and but her and my future husband share joint custody of the 7 yr old granddaughter,the parents do not have custody,but she can see them as long as it is supervised.I feel this poor child is being pulled in so many different directions,she loves me and poppy(Tim) but she of course loves her grandma (the X)and I guess she likes the guy her grandma is married to.We want her to have a normal life here with us and go to school here in our county where she is use to going but seems like her grandma is so upset that Tim is finally happy that she always pulls something to make trouble. Sometimes I think me and my kids might be better off in MS with the family and me realizing that maybe you get one chance in this life for happiness and maybe my sweet late husband was it for me,Tim is such a good guy and I hate to see his x pull all this mess,simply because she wants him miserable and alone,Not that their divorce was his doing,she was the one who cheated and walked out.I know if me and my kids were not in the picture things would be alot easier for him and his granddaughter,he says it would not be and that he loves me and my kids so much and wants us and granddaughter to be a family,I just wonder what to do,I do love Tim and I want us to be a family,but is it possible with the x in the picture?
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