mood in dumps
Not trying to be a debbie downer but sheesh..my so called best called me to tell me that she messed up bad, she messed up real bad ...I asked how she follows with I'm pregnant and I've done everything to prevent it. It just wasn't part of my plan and on and on. I reminded her quickly of the blessing...then said it will be ok. During this convo she sends me a pregnancy test picture and begans flooding my ears with thoughts of selling her pregnancy urine. Ummm what?? I am more than supportive and I was genuinelty happy for the news but a part of me was jealous...I'm normally not the jealous type guess there is a 1st for everything. For all you ladies getting your bfp that news makes me happier than hearing my friend say what a mistake she made....ugh this sucks . I hate to feel this way
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hugs hun sorry about the friend, sometimes it is tough hearing people say those types of things when we struggle so hard to get what we want. I really hope she isn\'t aware of your situation cause if she is that\'s just plain mean... hang in there though and never feel bad fro how you feel you are allowed to feel those emotions.... hugs
unfortunately she is very aware. Thank you so much for your kind words
Oh honey, how insensitive of her. She really should have picked an other friend to complain to if she knows about your struggles. I get mad when my friends complain about sleep reduced nights, I don\'t know how you made it though this conversation without exploding.
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I am so sorry! Ugh, the nerve of some people. Since she knew all you have been through, she should have been much more sensitive. How horrible of her to talk to you about how her being pregnant was her messing up big time! I would love to have that sort of \"mistake\" to deal with!
I was thinking of you the other day and wondering how our Alaskan friend was doing. Other than insensitive friends, I hope you are doing well!
:( Some people are just ignorant of others feelings You are entitled to feel any way you do...
Thank you all so much for seeing it the way I do. I always am very supportive and genuine and I\'m sure the only reason it bugged me was because she complained about it being a mistake knowing that I\'m doing everything under the sun to get pregnant. And yes I know not everyone wants another child but don\'t complain to a person struggling with the journey with the inconveince of an un planned pregnancy. I will be by her side routing for her to have a healthy baby for me to spoil I just had a moment of weakness and needed you ladies tohelp me come around.
Geez, your friend was being extremely insensitive. I agree with the other ladies, knowing what your going through, she should have picked someone else to complain to. That wasn\'t fair to you. And it\'s normal to have feelings of jealously, don\'t feel bad about that at all! Big hugs!
Ahhh that is so SO hard!