Mockery
Is "The Dumb Broad" assimilating? For sure, the clingy female dog hasn't gone away. She has had whiney nays to say over just about every task I have performed in my current projects. I have been plying mindfulness exercises while waiting her out. Seems to be working. The tasks are taking longer than they should, but they are getting done. Well done, I think.
The handyman I fired on his second day of work is still coming around, convincing me ever more that he isn't looking for a job. He's looking for a Sugar Mama. Sorry, Toots, your Sugar Mama don't live here. Keep that power-pecker in your pants! I am growing increasingly rude and crude in running him off. In between encounters, I find myself mocking him as a male stereotype. The yang to the yin of my "Dumb Broad" personification?
For sure, mockery and sarcasm are major psycho nag flags for me. At the beginning of my therapy, they were my most used defense mechanism and girl howdy, I was a master of mockery and sarcasm. I was especially brutal with the self-mockery/sarcasm. Just ask "The Dumb Broad." I am rather proud of how gentle I have been with "The Dumb Broad," but I find myself wondering if allowing mockery of the male stereotypes will eventually bubble up on the female side of the equation.
Dunno if that even makes sense. . . Sorting. . .
The water distiller is still humming. The tank on the Tower Garden is nearly half full. The lettuce has germinated and should be ready for the tower soon. The vicks plants are waiting on their slots in the tower.
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no sarcasm in this statement, watching plants grows is as exciting as watching paint dry. both have great benefits we are both familiar with. are the vicks plants eucalyptus or the Riecola plants you had in Texas, I forget the name. anyway glad to hear the project will soon be all wet.
The vicks plants you saw in Texas were lost in the corporate takeover, but it is the same species.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/203921120/medicinal-vicks-succulent-plant-starter?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_c-craft_supplies_and_tools-floral_and_garden_supplies-greenery_and_gardening-plants-succulents&utm_custom1=8c014d2b-d9ee-45e1-8550-021cc2808981&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7I2Pwsen1wIVlVqGCh1mGgboEAQYBCABEgItffD_BwE
Generic support.
What is it with males that they have audacity to to believe their superiority and that we don't "get" what the neck it is they are doing? Wow to the super power. Be as rude as you have to run him off. I can't stand men that take advantage of my friends, roar. I have a client that I actually was told by my boss that I had to tell her, "stop being a sugar momma, you are going to have nothing left to live on". This conman was draining all her money. It's gross for sure.
Long distance support and thoughts of ....as said in the movie, Oh Brother Where art though....go ahead and r-u-n-n him off!
P.s. I also go to extreme sarcasm when defensive. I get down right obnoxious sometimes and am working on it when I am in full medical ptsd mode.
Hugs and hope u make right decision for you for holidays. Being alone is so hard.