Mistake

Made the mistake of talking to him today.  He told me he wanted to leave me flowers and that he still loves me and wants me but he can't keep hurting me.  He is too depressed to leave the house or work on himself at all.  He has sex addiction and alcohol addiction problems and he is having urges to go back to them.  He won't fight for anything.  I can't spend the rest of my life waiting for him to grow and be a good person who doesn't want to use other women for sex and who wants to fight for me, and him, and us.  I think he is going to put himself in some kind of hell forever, if i go with him i'll be there forever too.