Missing my kitties so much
I am having such a hard time. I miss waking up in the mornings and seeing all my girls out there waiting for me to feed them. Yesterday I only saw mama kitty and Maddie and they didn't even come until late at night. I just don't understand after all these years why they are not coming to eat.
I live in a dulpex and new people moved in with a cat, I'm wondering if that cat has claimed this territory and moved them out. It's that porch they were living under. I'm just so upset.
I live in a dulpex and new people moved in with a cat, I'm wondering if that cat has claimed this territory and moved them out. It's that porch they were living under. I'm just so upset.
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I\"m so sorry you\'re going through is. While I\'ll continue to pray that Tess finds her way home, I would try and think like TigersMom said....sometimes they do relocate and I hope that is the case for Tess if she doesn\'t show up back home. I have seen it with some of the feral cats around here when they\'ve been around for some time then they leave, only to show up again months later. (That is exactly the case with Bryce Olyver\'s mother....she comes and goes for months at a time)
Im so very sorry. You must be terribly worried and upset. Cat people like us understand that they are so much more than pets, they are family. My Maxx is my baby, he\'s almost 6 and we\'ve been together sine he was a tiny kitten. I feel guilty because he is an indoor cat. I would love for him to enjoy the world outside of the home I share with my parents and their female cat Tilly(he loves her and wants to snuggle and play but she wont give him the time of day.Unfortunately we have a raccoon problem, and its not safe for him to go outside. I tried leash training him immediately after I adopted him but he wont cooperate, after almost six years he still refuses to move with his leash on. He has snuck out 3 times(never for more than 2 hours)but I was hysterical...full blown anxiety attack, tears, inability to breath, etc. I know I am too attached to him, but I have no children, and he really is my baby. When my ex husband became addicted to drugs, psychologically and verbally abusive, and so controlling(he would leave me home alone, isolated from family&the few friends I had left after I became disabled, Maxx and my other cat Marley(he\'s 7 and lives with my ex) were my only companions). I still am devastated and filled with guilt for leaving Marley, but my parents took me in and I couldn\'t bring both of my boys. Marley loves Dan...he runs to meet him at the door and has always slept on Dan\'s feet. I know that Dan isn\'t a bad man. He is an addict. I\'m not making excuses for the way he treated me, but I will always love the man I fell in love with and married and pray that he is able to quit the drugs. I left him and Marley nearly 3 years ago. I miss him Marley so much and I mis Dan too. The truth is I couldn\'t walk out on Dan and leave him all alone. Its been almost a year since I\'ve seen either of them. I used to visit Marley & Dan, but it is too upsetting for me. He emails me pictures of Marley& I send him pictures of Maxx. We don\'t talk(it is too painful). I\'m sorry. I wanted to tell you how sorry I am that you\'re girls haven\'t been home, and how I understand th worrying & pain you are going through. I selfishly told you about missing my Marley. I just want you to know that I understand your pain and worry. I HOPE AND PRAY THAT YOUR GIRLS RETURN HOME SAFELY! If you want to PM me, I am a good listener and I am a cat person. I will pray for them to come home.
Angel, not knowing must be the hardest thing for you right now. I am sending all the strength I have to get through this time in your life and will pray for you.