middle man
why do i get myself into these spots?? do i look like a fix it man or have stupid written on my forehead??? my mother called the other day complaining about the kids upstairs leaving the door open running up the electric bill with the kids coming and going with wet feet across the hardwood floors(like any of it was my business) i told her that i would talk to them again and that the kids know they have to go through my door to get in or out. then i went up to salt lake city to kims (sister) listened to her problems and what it would take to help her out. MONEY!!! i told her that all she needs to do is call dads and say i need to go to the dr please help me. she feels like everyone is stepping into her private space.which after thousands of dollars i can see why my dad is hesitant. she needs help getting stable first of all. i wish that i could get them talking, but i think that she won't ask therefore nothing good will happen.then i have my own problems to deal with anyway. my energy level has burnt out. talk again soon when i pull myself together.
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Well, it looks like you need to set boundaries. Also, you can\'t \"fix\" someone who really does not want to be \"fixed.\" Maybe, you should back out of your sister\'s as well as your mother\'s dilemmas. Problem solving is heathy! Hugs and care, Neesie