Mentally drained...
How do you respond and act towards people now.
I still feel very broken and sad, depressed and hurt yet people are telling me to get over and move on, stbxw is so happy to be without you, I should not be like this if she is not....
How do you handle that, support system I had seems to be fading. I can't fake my emotions, I am an emotional person and wear my heart on my sleeve.
The feeling of lonliness is creeping in, the feeling of everyone around me is tired of me and my situation, I have no idea how to react or respond to them anymore.
I am totally shutting down as a the person I was...
I still feel very broken and sad, depressed and hurt yet people are telling me to get over and move on, stbxw is so happy to be without you, I should not be like this if she is not....
How do you handle that, support system I had seems to be fading. I can't fake my emotions, I am an emotional person and wear my heart on my sleeve.
The feeling of lonliness is creeping in, the feeling of everyone around me is tired of me and my situation, I have no idea how to react or respond to them anymore.
I am totally shutting down as a the person I was...
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Hugs my friend. Please be gentle with yourself. It is hard, but you cannot listen to what people are saying about her. Going no contact is the best way. Whether she is happy or not, has nothing to do with you now. You need to look after yourself. What you are feeling is very normal. It usually takes 1 year for every 4 years of a relationship to start healing. As for her, it could be all show. She has to show people that she is happy. But are you sure that she is? It is a long and hard road through hell. We are here for you.