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 so far no third tropical storm.  yay!  however, was still wiped out today from painting yesterday, i think - can't tell if its a new pattern, because i've never been old before and never had all these health things to deal with before that i know of.  

so i went with the flow and rested and am starting to understand older generations and their many naps.  lol.  strange though.  so much wasted time is mostly what that feels like.  i hope its all the low iron/hemoglobin doing it and i'll pop back to normal.    

what i don't understand is people who have bad/evil behavior when they are young and also when they are old - no change for the better or worse than before,  just better at concealing their bad behavior with age.   and i don't understand being indoors for naps?  what is that about?  i've always been an outdoor person.  hope its temporary.  

so after hearing/seeing the mini drama with r, which isn't her fault at all and never was and i know its not over and won't be over until b no longer exists or r finally gets away from b completely which has never happened so far?   

this would be b if she visited, this is the kind of thorn in the side b is --   blmck has the same problem with his sister courtney.   he has five sisters, so its hard to remember who is who.  she CAUSES all the trouble then "fixes" the trouble SHE made and wants to be remembered as the fixer of trouble when its SHE who causes all the trouble to begin with.   this is an improvement, when she was younger she caused trouble, but never apologised nor fixed anything - she didn't learn manners and owning up to the things she did, until her mid-teens.   why bother with any of that?  the other sisters, literally moved thousands of miles away to be away from it/her.  she stayed put and its like, shouldn't it be the other way around, let her move and everyone else can stay.  lol.  

with the other side of r's family, its b.  she will show up uninvited, and wake everyone up as though she is in a barracks and its time for everyone to start cleaning or doing something because she said so, even when its someone else's house.  SICK.  or the person just got back from work or going out and just fell asleep two hours before that and then they have to deal with her.   b is a morning person in a family where everyone else is seriously nocturnal - which b hates because she is always the odd one out.  who cares.  makes you wonder where she comes from because no one else is a morning person except her.  

then she will find things wrong at your house, even if your house is nicer than her's and she will tell you about all these things she is finding fault with.  wth?  not because she is handy and would like to fix anything, but simply because she is a douche.  

if you have a house that is worse than her's especially much worse, then she says nothing, except probably behind your back - so that is the people she goes for.  not sure what kind of complex that is, but its what goes on.  if its r, who has anything going on that is better than b (which is most of the time) then b starts her crap that all should be equal since they are sisters.  really?  aren't you way too old to act like that?  how about grow up.    r works for what she has, b doesn't.   b lives off her husband(s), before that she lived off the military and before that she lived off her mother -- she probably STILL lives off her mother.  

the other one who is like that is pr, he uses his father's car or his mother's card for enterprise rent a car.  he was like this when he was in college and fast forward 33 years and he is STILL like this!   what amazes me is he and his youngest half-sister ended up like this.  the youngest one should be set for life from her father anyway, but its still strange, no goals at all.  their version of a job is helping their mother when she is living half her year up north.  that's your "job"?  and relatives will say to pr, most people work for a living.  he never replies.  he just goes on about current events and still lives in one of his father's houses.  

have never figured out what he does for cash unless his current wife is working?    the other sister is normal, but she had to choose a college, which became her permanent life,  as far from her brother as she could go - the opposite coast of usa, everyone thought when she said "west" she meant the west coast of florida.  nope.   she chose the west coast of usa because her brother was so much trouble, mostly behind her back - harassing phone calls to work and to friends and to school the whole bit.   nancyh went through exactly the same thing with stuarth, except that never stopped even when they were both old.  wish she had let herself move far away, but she was worried about her mother being at the mercy of stuarth, who couldn't be trusted around other living things at all.  didn't matter who or what it was.  

it really bugged pr that his normal sister's life was normal.  then he resented his mother, for okaying all the things his normal sister did that were normal - like having jobs while in junior high school and high school, but still encouraging pr not to work, and he was in college by then.  later on she said she did this because anywhere he attempted to work when he was in high school and college, became a lawsuit.  they would have to pay everyone to get him out of it.  how about to make good on it - wonder where he gets his bad attitude from.    he "takes" things, in other words, he steals and worse.    all kinds of things, other people's paychecks.  contracts.  jewelry.  mail.  phone messages.  weird.  his entire life that is what he does.  

he claimed he did it to see if he could/would get away with it and what would happen.  hmmm.  at age 6 or 7 maybe, though even by then you should know the difference between right and wrong.  at age 21?  at age 50?   i see something reallllly wrong there.  and his mother will say, so does she!  and agree with you.  and then you say, but he says he also does it because he claims you told him he is better than everyone else and other living things don't matter - just he matters - or just his family matters.  what is that about?  so then she will hang up on you.  those two deserve each other.  wonder how his normal sister made it out of there "normal", but she had her step father and step grandmother, though so did the youngest sister and it didn't help.  lol.   self-absorbed to the point of complete narcissism.  with pr what he believes in theory never resembles what he does in real life.    

i would think this is isolated, except i noticed with bda's immediate family who also "takes" things/steal, they act exactly the same way.  people like that also try to set up other people to make it look like they did things that they never did.  they treat all living things like prey and they are the predators/bullies.    truly sick.   well, its my birthday, so i decided to vent today.  the b-day is actually saturday.  would like to hide for it but i'll be up north.  if you don't celebrate birthdays, then they don't happen.   lol.