MC F/U
I just got back from the doctor and the apt went well. There were no pregnant women in the waiting room and I didnt have to wait long. My doctor is so nice and so caring. I asked him if he would do the MC blood work and to my suprise he said yes. I had to go to the hospital to have it done becuase of some lab reasons. Now I am just waiting for the blood work to come back in about a week. I know this sounds weird but I am hoping something comes back positive so that they can fix it and maybe it will put my mind at ease the next time we get pregnant. It still hurts but the day's are getting better. I went through an angry phase last week. My poor husband!
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I\'m glad that your appointment today went well. I can remember my MC follow-up and it\'s a hard day in general. I too had angry phases. Just be kind to yourself during this time and know that you WILL heal and you WILL have a family in the future.
I remember my post-op apt. I decided to sit in the corner where nobody was at...then bang two big pregnant women sat beside me. I tried not to look up..urgh it was horrible. I too hoped that something bad came back on my test, so I could fix....everything came back fine. I am glad you are getting on o.k....I feel for my DH too.
I\'m glad to hear it went well! I was hoping they\'d find something in my blood work that would be a cause for my miscarriages because then they could treat it and I could have a normal pregnancy. It\'s odd to be wishing for something to be wrong, but I know how you feel.
I totally understand. I was that way too. It is easier to know it can be something that can be fixed, then just something that happened and they do not know why. I was in tears the whole time I was in the waiting room at my f/u appt. Things will get better in your own time.
I completely understand hoping they will find something wrong-bc then it can be fixed. I am glad to hear that you are getting better. Again, I am so sorry for your loss. Don\'t be too hard on yourself if you don\'t always greive in the \"right\" way. Angry phases are good too. and DH will survive.