Mayhem and craziness

Yipe!  We are about to leave for the rehersal dinner for my daughters wedding which is tomorrow at noon!!!
I won't even go through what's been going on the last several days cause we gotta go soon.  We got stuck with the rehersal dinner too which the grooms family is supposed to do.  Grrrrrr
Everything is happening at church and we gotta clean up after tonight and then after tomorrow. 
Not one person from MY family is making it.  Even though they all have good reasons and I know some of them wanted to come badly it hurts me anyway.
BTW:  We will be watching my SIL's little boy while they go on honeymoon and then May 11th is DDAY (1 year)  and May 15th is 30th anniversary and May 26th is youngest son's graduation.  June 2nd my Daughters new family moves far far away.  11 hrs drive.  :'-(
Meanwhile we are frantically at work doing all that needs to be done for getting youngest into college.  It's a lot and I am terrified of missing deadlines.  We have NO MONEY beyond just scraping by so I really don't know how we are doing all of this.  I hope scraping by doesn't turn into.....NOT scraping by.  At least I have been learning to keep a looser grip on my need for financial security except the occasional break down. 
YIPE!!!  Gotta go.