Maybe less time spent here

I have been here for over 3 years.  I have tried to help many and hopefully I have.  I have a daughter now, who is separated from her husband of 15 years and, they have 3 children.  They are going to be the focus of my attention over the next few months.
For some reason, it seems like either I am just too old to be of any real interest or, my friends that I have had, have other interests now and, that's ok, I understand.
I will be spending less time here but, if someone needs me, send me a message and I will try to get back to you as soon as I can.  I will check in, from time to time to read my messages but, if I don't get any more than I have over the last 3 months, there won't be many to read anyway.
I have been through many hardships, hurt, deception, and sorrow, in my life.  I have dealt with a nervous breakdown, depression, and the loss of my son.  Due to what I have endured in life, I have tried to use my struggles, to hopefully help others.
I am not mad, I just feel I have to re-align my priorities and focus on things that are at hand.  I love you all here that know me.  I am not abandoning anyone.  I don't do that. I am just not going to be here as much, for a while but, let me re-emphasize what I said, "if you need me, message me and I will get back to you".  That is a promise from me.
Oldbiker/Pee Wee

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Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD

Peewee.. please take care of you.. it wasnt that long ago you were in a depression and it sounds like like you may be headed that way again.. please see your doc sweetie if you are feeling low.. Im so sorry to hear about your daughter and her family.. if you need a friend.. I will be here and message me if you need a friend to talk to.. love and respect my dear friend.. Jan..x
deleted_user
deleted_user

I have only just met you, and at this point my feelings are to raw to feel right bouncing them off of any one and not feel like I am bringing them down. My thoughts are with you and your daughter. I can appreciate the whole situation, so please let me turn this around on you and if you need to talk I am here for you! Be safe in your thoughts and actions darlin.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Dear Peewee, Thank you so much for all your support, listening, advice, and prayers. Very much appreciated. Youre not too old for us. We have benefited from your wisdom gained from your painful heart rending struggles & sorrows. I understand the priority of your daughter and grandchildren at hand. I wish you the best this new year and ahead. Your sister in Christ, Carol
deleted_user
deleted_user

All I can say which is probably what you already know is that the devil has ways and means of destroying a good thing and making you think that you arent helping anyone. To me if people are no longer in touch it means that you have helped them move on, thats not a bad thing. I know how you feel because I seem to be in that situation with several friendships but now I see it as Gods will. I guess God will keep on finding me other people that will need help and they will move on. I have come to expect that happening now so its less of a wrench when they do move on. Stay in touch your good at what you do.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Pee Wee. You know how I feel about all of this. You know what a blessing I KNOW that you are to many people. I know you have been hurt and I know this is a really hard time for you. You are always in my thoughts and in my prayers and I will always be here for you. That was a promise I made to you and I will never break it. I love you Pee Wee.
starbright1949
starbright1949

I agree with all of them. You have been someone I can come to and you understand me. How do we contact you??~~Debbie
grammydebest
grammydebest

you have been and are a blessing in my life and in the lives of others! if you are \'too old to be of any real interest\' then so am i! you would be surprised how many young people look on here for the voice of experience (that would be us!)

i haven\'t been able to be on as much as i would like to myself because of health issues. and very very soon before the warranty/insurance i got for the computer i have runs out i need to send it off for repairs so i won\'t be able to be on at all for possibly weeks!

in the midst of all this, i don\'t want to lose someone i consider my best friend! please :(
beaniesgirl
beaniesgirl

PeeWee, Please take the time to focus on the needs of you and your family. I feel that is how it\'s supposed to be. Know that you are loved and respected here and that if you need to bounce something off someone to get a little different perspective, right here\'s a great place to do that! I am praying that God will bless you with His healing peace through the turmoil that lies ahead. Listen for his small still voice in all the chaos and you will all know His peace.
Be well. Hugs to all y\'all!
Rachel
concettah
concettah

I\'m sorry to hear this about your daughter. I am not a minister as you are and my son has not been married 15 yrs but On thanksgiving I received the same news from my son. There are 4 small children involved and his mess may be more complicated but I know the feelings of a parents broken heart for their child and grandchildren. It sickens me that you will be away cause I so appreciate you and your love for the Lord and all that you have helped me with. My prayers will be with you and your daughter and family. Just remember one thing peewee, christains don\'t ever retire. Till the day the Lord calls us home we have a job to do to the best of our ability. No I should say to the best of His ability. I\'m going through a very difficult time for me and my ability has been a flop LOL. What will I do with out you bro, God Be with you peewee through these last days and may He Bless you abundantly for all that you have given to each of us here. I probably will be messaging you. In His Love Always peewee, your sis connie