May have inched it forward a bit
So its been a while since I wrote a journal entry, and its really only for my records, I'm hoping to someday read them back and remember all this turmoil and how it was soooo worth it.
So last I knew everthing was dependant on AF dates, and I had decided to do a hysteroscopy to increase my chances of success, however with my dates falling late October I wasn't hopeful for a day one before 28th November (clinic cutoff for transfers over Xmas) so my period came November 2nd but that was really October cycle so no use having hystero only to have no FET due to xmas. So I was expecting to have to wait til Jan for hystero and then Feb for FET.
I rang the clinic today though to check if they can accept day ones for Hysteros after 28th of November since surely the process isn't as drawn out and yipppeee my thinking paid off and she said yes! They will not shut til Dec 20th so I can ring them on first day of cycle and book in for the hystero, and then have a transfer in January!!!! That's a whole month earlier, seems so soon now haha, all this waiting and now i'm thinking arggghhh, its so close!
I still have the odd concerns about my stress levels at work interfering , my work place is a nightmare....very long story... and my boss is going away, leaving me in charge of 2 new staff (already one member down due to cuts) one of which is USELESS, all this when I actually applied for the managers job but it was given to a girl who has been there half as long as me and has half the skills and much less dedication than me. Now they expect me to run it again (as ihave done in the past ) when I wasn't good enough to be the manager?!?!?
Anyway, she plans to go away Jan 30th, for 6 weeks, and my FET was gonna be FEB and I had no idea how that wasgonna work, was even thinking of postponing til she returned, I didn't wanna look back and wonder if it would have worked if I postponed til work was a bit calmer. ANyway now I can transfer in Jan I think that is better??? although it still means I have to go through first few weeks after 2ww in quite a high stress environment, no idea whats the best idea? But id obviously rather move it in than out... I may post a discussion on the main board to see what you ladies advise?
Oh well, that's all from me, more exciting and terrifying times ahead!!
So last I knew everthing was dependant on AF dates, and I had decided to do a hysteroscopy to increase my chances of success, however with my dates falling late October I wasn't hopeful for a day one before 28th November (clinic cutoff for transfers over Xmas) so my period came November 2nd but that was really October cycle so no use having hystero only to have no FET due to xmas. So I was expecting to have to wait til Jan for hystero and then Feb for FET.
I rang the clinic today though to check if they can accept day ones for Hysteros after 28th of November since surely the process isn't as drawn out and yipppeee my thinking paid off and she said yes! They will not shut til Dec 20th so I can ring them on first day of cycle and book in for the hystero, and then have a transfer in January!!!! That's a whole month earlier, seems so soon now haha, all this waiting and now i'm thinking arggghhh, its so close!
I still have the odd concerns about my stress levels at work interfering , my work place is a nightmare....very long story... and my boss is going away, leaving me in charge of 2 new staff (already one member down due to cuts) one of which is USELESS, all this when I actually applied for the managers job but it was given to a girl who has been there half as long as me and has half the skills and much less dedication than me. Now they expect me to run it again (as ihave done in the past ) when I wasn't good enough to be the manager?!?!?
Anyway, she plans to go away Jan 30th, for 6 weeks, and my FET was gonna be FEB and I had no idea how that wasgonna work, was even thinking of postponing til she returned, I didn't wanna look back and wonder if it would have worked if I postponed til work was a bit calmer. ANyway now I can transfer in Jan I think that is better??? although it still means I have to go through first few weeks after 2ww in quite a high stress environment, no idea whats the best idea? But id obviously rather move it in than out... I may post a discussion on the main board to see what you ladies advise?
Oh well, that's all from me, more exciting and terrifying times ahead!!
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I\'m glad you can do your FET sooner than you thought!! The work stress thing is tough. Thinking about you!
Hey Nedico, it sounds good that your FET can move forward. I am doing mine in Dec. I think it is a good idea to do it in Jan as everyone is usually pretty relaxed, warm weather etc. and it sounds like that will be a less stressful time than Feb for you anyway:-)
Thanks guys, a long and boring journal entry, sorry about that!
I hope work isn\'t too stressful and you can get you FET done ASAP. Lots of success w FETs lately. You will be next :)