May be I need to be less oppinionated

Don't seem to get as many hugs and messages as I used to. Maybe I need to not spend so much time in War & Terrorism. Maybe that is chasing people away from me. I do enjoy the debates there though. It gives me a chance to vent and express me ideas and oppinions. I guess I am going to have to decide which is better for me.  I guess I'll change my avatar to something less oppinionated. Maybe my changing my avatar so often is causing people to not realize it is me. Just don't know what to think. Need to have friends have NONE in real life. Very lonely. I keep leaving posts on all sorts of groups hoping to see someone comment about what I left. I guess I am looking for recongnician that I have some valid thoughts. But I don't get many if any recognition that I have even posted anything. Kind of make me feel like I am invisable. Like high school.