May 21, 2010 What constitutes a friendship....
I have been asked recently, What consistututes a friendship based on communication? Is communication based on one sided or should it be shared by 2 individuals. A friend I chatted with started asking me "why I don't ask questions?" I started to ask questions but it wasn't good enough questions. Of course, I went off on a tangent - like I sometimes do (I am not perfect).
Ok, I am not perfect in every way. I like to be a decent person who likes to converse with an individual. Do I have to "ASK" questions to have a converstation with that person, No! Conversing with someone just has to be natural. Like, how was your day? What did you do today? thats what you need to do. then you go from there. I should not have been dictatated as to how the conversation should go. Its not fair or right!
I am very upset right now and felt this person has hurt me. Maybe DS isn't the place for me after all and I need to get away. We are all human and my conversations with this person is not "one sided". He/She needs manners in friendship and what it means to him/her. I was a friend and I thought they were too.
Ok, I am not perfect in every way. I like to be a decent person who likes to converse with an individual. Do I have to "ASK" questions to have a converstation with that person, No! Conversing with someone just has to be natural. Like, how was your day? What did you do today? thats what you need to do. then you go from there. I should not have been dictatated as to how the conversation should go. Its not fair or right!
I am very upset right now and felt this person has hurt me. Maybe DS isn't the place for me after all and I need to get away. We are all human and my conversations with this person is not "one sided". He/She needs manners in friendship and what it means to him/her. I was a friend and I thought they were too.
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