Tim came by this morning to get some more of his stuff. I finally got him to sit down and talk to me. He left, but he did get some phone numbers for marriage counselors. He said he'd make an appt. for us.
Um, OK. Well, I guess you could try a counselor and see what happens, but he would need to have a pretty big attitude shift for that to be helpful at all. I wonder what he\'s thinking. He\'s an enigma to me. Love you.
Nancy, I just caught up on your last few journals. You and Tim have been in my prayers a lot these last few weeks. I am sorry you are having to deal with such difficult things right now. Broken relationships are so hard, and emotionally and physically draining. I think if the marriage counselor is good, he or she will be able to see that something is going on with Tim in his own life, and maybe point him in the right direction for his own counseling. Take care, friend.
Well that sounds hopeful.Like I said before, people make mistakes but change and spiritual growth is possible.Marriages can break down and repair again. I\'ve seen this happen many times.Tim may have a lot of suppressed emotional issues that need clearing.Hope the counseling does happen.If he is agreeing to this then he must still want the relationship to work.Mmm very interesting.Hugs my friend xo
This must seem very confusing to you, Nancy! The man is sending you mixed messages! If it was his idea about the marriage counseling then he must realize that he may still want the relationship! He surely isn\'t behaving that way!
Well, I will pray that if it\'s the Lord\'s will that you two be together, the counseling will be of some benefit!!! I\'m so sorry that this man\'s confusion and problems have ruined your marriage. Please know that we are all in your corner and only hope for your peace and happiness. With or without Tim! xoxo
Hello lovely, I am so sorry I am only just commenting now, I have been away without a computer and can\'t get DS on my phone well enough. I am sorry to hear you are going through all of this, but progress has been made and I am glad that you can begin to take steps forward, wherever they may lead you, I am sure that moving forward will bring you progress and knowledge, though it may seem confusing now. Tim\'s behaviour is bizarrely confusing, attending the counselling may help you find some clarity. I am sure it will take a lot for TIm to resolve his issues. Through all of this take care of yourself, try and feed yourself as well as you can and protect your immune system from winter bugs. I know it sounds silly but if your body is as strong as you can manage then your brain will find it easier to process all of this.
I hope you are keeping your family close, even if you don\'t feel like it, being around those who love you will give you strength.
Much love and hugs, we are all praying for you.
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Um, OK. Well, I guess you could try a counselor and see what happens, but he would need to have a pretty big attitude shift for that to be helpful at all. I wonder what he\'s thinking. He\'s an enigma to me. Love you.
Nancy, I just caught up on your last few journals. You and Tim have been in my prayers a lot these last few weeks. I am sorry you are having to deal with such difficult things right now. Broken relationships are so hard, and emotionally and physically draining. I think if the marriage counselor is good, he or she will be able to see that something is going on with Tim in his own life, and maybe point him in the right direction for his own counseling. Take care, friend.
Here to support you my friend wherever your journey takes you! Love and hugs...
Well that sounds hopeful.Like I said before, people make mistakes but change and spiritual growth is possible.Marriages can break down and repair again. I\'ve seen this happen many times.Tim may have a lot of suppressed emotional issues that need clearing.Hope the counseling does happen.If he is agreeing to this then he must still want the relationship to work.Mmm very interesting.Hugs my friend xo
This must seem very confusing to you, Nancy! The man is sending you mixed messages! If it was his idea about the marriage counseling then he must realize that he may still want the relationship! He surely isn\'t behaving that way!
Well, I will pray that if it\'s the Lord\'s will that you two be together, the counseling will be of some benefit!!! I\'m so sorry that this man\'s confusion and problems have ruined your marriage. Please know that we are all in your corner and only hope for your peace and happiness. With or without Tim! xoxo
Hello lovely, I am so sorry I am only just commenting now, I have been away without a computer and can\'t get DS on my phone well enough. I am sorry to hear you are going through all of this, but progress has been made and I am glad that you can begin to take steps forward, wherever they may lead you, I am sure that moving forward will bring you progress and knowledge, though it may seem confusing now. Tim\'s behaviour is bizarrely confusing, attending the counselling may help you find some clarity. I am sure it will take a lot for TIm to resolve his issues. Through all of this take care of yourself, try and feed yourself as well as you can and protect your immune system from winter bugs. I know it sounds silly but if your body is as strong as you can manage then your brain will find it easier to process all of this.
I hope you are keeping your family close, even if you don\'t feel like it, being around those who love you will give you strength.
Much love and hugs, we are all praying for you.