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What also brings me here is a recent breakup of a serious 4yr relationship.  Shocking breakup, I might add.  Bizarre, I might also add.  It's left me confused as h***, lonely, and not even wanting another relationship.  Like I'm so done with this s***. 
I thought about meds after this happened, since it was so distressing.  But its been over a month now and I haven't taken any, and I am more used to not being an "us" now.   I'm not on any meds, and never have been for my anxiety/depression.  Oh, once I tried Xanax, well several times, and I couldn't stand the stuff, just made me feel weird, not calm at all.
It's hard to tell which came first, the A or the D.  I think the basis is the anxiety though, I'm pretty sure.  I never felt so depressed that I didnt want to get out of bed, or couldn't laugh or something like that.  Even when my situations was the worst.  Always had hope.