lunch with j//saw the torti on the road behind us i think//called police on the car/housetrespasser

light and heavy rain and wind, its making me sooooo sleepy.  i actually parked by the beach on the way up here, opened my window a crack and fell asleep for 30 min. 
mostly good day, just sleepy.  got to dye my hair.  finally.  used natural instincts permanent color and left it on 20 min, not the ten that they claim, just in case.  then went to the spa and did some business calls while being in the sauna.  i love doing that.  called the new finance company.  its still screwy there.  the dealer says they have sent the paperwork twice.  again yesterday.  and the finance company says they never did.  they also claim the dealer could do calculated interest or simple interest.  simple is they charge the interest in full (what we call front loaded in mortgages) even if you pay it in 90 days, sounds like a scam to me and is the exact opposite of what the dealer claimed they do.  grrrrr.  since they advertise 90 days same as cash and the finance company says, this is a lie totally, this is bait and switch.  calculated interest is where interest is calculated per payment.  have to look this up.  very underhanded crap on these smaller sums.  need to really look at it, as i wanted a window man to come and do the same for the windows on the new house.   just curious on cost.  i said this to mcc and he says to let him bid on it as well, and i'm thinking HOW, you can't bring your trucks here because the women down the road will vandalize.  we also had things with our tires low on air, thought it was climate, but we alllll had this.  completely whacko shit.  weirdos.  
 
alllll my joints hurt.  will try livings recipe for that.  2 fish oil and 2 turmeric and see if it works.  i didn't take aspirin yet because plain aspirin bugs my stomach.  would pepto bismal with aspirin work to buffer it?  don't even know. 
went out to lunch with j.  just a buffet.  it was good though.  a lot of shrimp cocktail, sushi and some egg thing that was good, and fruit and melons along with allll the stuff that i shouldn't eat.  went to a whole foods place and discovered they have the queen size olives that k likes so much.  he used to know this himself because he told me about it, wonder if he still remembers.  
rn wants me to start looking at acreage again and just cut my losses.  i said this to k this morning.  its a shame because the house next to acreage in the middle of town is such a perfect solution.  really annoys the shit out of me.  the whole situation does, should have known there is a reason there are four empty houses on that street, but in south florida, all that means is the person is a snowbird.  that isn't what that means in north florida though.  empty houses are normal and watched well in the south.  up here its bad and not normal.  
 
rn and tim want the acreage thing, but tim isn't even around anymore.  rn is willing to spend half the week at the acreage.  but i really can't handle rural, it gives me an anxiety attack.  the people causing trouble at the new house are more likely than not rural but from a bad area, normal people don't vandalize cars, tresspass nor stalk.  the locks on the car aren't working properly for two months now and the mechanic says its from someone messing with them.  same happened with the camry over there and with two pick up trucks from the contractor, which is when we found first the two women from up the street by them and then two men.  hard to tell who is who when it happens fast like that.  the contractor says to me, are they with you and i'm like i thought they were with you.  same with the men.  he called mcc and then i called the police.  called them again to find out what to do and they said we are a stand your ground state, get a gun.  i don't comprehend why they are doing this.  but now i know why FOUR houses are empty on this street.  k says the neighbor may be just as bad, and two of the houses are junky looking in the front.  hate to burn him on this.  maura doesn't want it either, even with a reverse.   the other alternative is to call miami to handle it or anyone from just south of here, or to just buy the empty houses on the street and put my own people in them.   but if these women aren't gone it won't change it.  we are printing out who owns what and checking who everyone is.  i shouldn't have to do something like that.  never even occured to me that this might go on. 
saw the torti cat (i think) that was missing, running by the house on the block behind us.  that is the house that k was saying he didn't trust.  i think its the one down the street, he has the wrong one.  have to set up a camera for this.  what a pain in my ass.  i don't think she wants to come in and that means someone is feeding her.  miss her though.  wish she'd turn back up. 
saw rn.  she has an ordinary antenna set up in her back bedroom, positioned ON THE WINDOW on the outside and she gets 20 channels from it.  wth?  she said it doesn't work on the front of the house, you have to figure out which room will pick up.  i'm impressed.  i thought she gave up cable totally.  she did.  but she has this now and its a perfect picture.  i was stunned.  
went to a book sale.  can't stay away from those.  read an american girl book samantha's party, which of course was great.  i'm a fan.  i also have one called crissa which is about bullying.  should be good.  nowadays they claim bullying is the root of allll evil and starts at a very young age.  like kill off all the bullies and there wouldn't be any crime at all on the whole planet.  probably true.