love triganle

I have been seeing a married woman since oct at first it wasn't serious it was just about fun and everything was going good.  Now that I have feelings for her she just wanted to be freinds even thou she has been telling me for 4 months she was leaving her husband.  I am done with this relationship I shouldn't have to play second to anybody,  I deserve better.

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deleted_user
deleted_user

Well, did you know she was married when you started dating her? You shouldn\'t have to play second, so find a single woman.
Loved1
Loved1

Yes you do! Live and learn.
deleted_user
deleted_user

oohh.. man can I soo relate to you.. If you ever get a chance read my journal entries and you will realize that I so understand about the married others... We do deserve someone who we want but can give their whole selves... I read some of your journal enties and it all starts internally.. We have to work on ourselves before we can be with someone else.. We should chat sometime..
deleted_user
deleted_user

Do you wonder why you were attracted to a married woman? Perhaps the thrill of the chase without any committment? That\'s the risk you take when you put yourself out there with married people. I always think ... if they are with me and we got together, wouldn\'t they just do it with someone else as well? But, you live & you learn.