Love him for who he is.....

I have turned myself upside down trying to change him, and now I wonder can I just love him for who he is, for who God made him to be? I am making an effort today to start on a new leaf. I want to be okay with the person he is and accept him for him so I am going to give it a try to curb my thinking about him and the situation. To love him for him and not for who I want him to be.