Love and Possession

I guess the trick is to be possessed by each other so you don't mind being the possessor or possessee.  I guess I don't know anyone whom I would like to be a slave to...don't like being the possessor or being smothered by a possessee, so, much as ladies haven't been exactly crawling out of the woodwork, I'm keeping the few women that I know at "friends-length".  Gotta keep talking to new ones.  Eventually, the right emotional gel will surface...