lots happening
i had a 4 day migraine (none of my head ache meds worked) and ended up goin to the ER on Friday. they shot me up with some stuff and got rid of it. came home with remaining body aches since i'm still in a fibro flare but i guess i can't have everything. at least the splitting head pain was gone.
mom is still healing from her surgery. i think she is doing pretty good. she is moving around a bit and gets on her crutches a lil' here and there. she still can't make it to the bath/rm and uses the potty chair by the couch and i still wheel her to the 1st flr shower for her shower. we are still waiting for home care services. they are taking FOREVER!!! if mom was paralized from the neck down, they would have let her die by now!
my youngest bro Adi is coming on the 1st to come help out. he's in the USAF and although he was here last month, he spoke to his chaplain and because of the family situation they are letting him come back to care for her for 14 days. GOOD!!! i need a break!
Sonnie has gotten better at helping out with mom. every evening after work he dumps her toilet bowl out and does a few things for her. at least on most nights. sometimes he gets whiney and doesn't do anyhting, but MOST of the time he does things.
i NEED a vacation.
one of the cats, Hershey, which is the youngest one, got really sick Monday and required emergency surgery that day. the cost was over $1,200! i had to charge it since i don't have the money. i called up her original owner, my EX, and had some words with him. told him that since i just paid for her medical care, i'm not paying him back for anything he thinks i owe him anymore! he can just flush all that so called debt he thinks i have to pay him down the toilet! i havent' heard from him or seen him since.
so far that's what's been goin on.... thanks for being there for me and mom and those of you that are there for my cat! i apreciate everything! God bless!
mom is still healing from her surgery. i think she is doing pretty good. she is moving around a bit and gets on her crutches a lil' here and there. she still can't make it to the bath/rm and uses the potty chair by the couch and i still wheel her to the 1st flr shower for her shower. we are still waiting for home care services. they are taking FOREVER!!! if mom was paralized from the neck down, they would have let her die by now!
my youngest bro Adi is coming on the 1st to come help out. he's in the USAF and although he was here last month, he spoke to his chaplain and because of the family situation they are letting him come back to care for her for 14 days. GOOD!!! i need a break!
Sonnie has gotten better at helping out with mom. every evening after work he dumps her toilet bowl out and does a few things for her. at least on most nights. sometimes he gets whiney and doesn't do anyhting, but MOST of the time he does things.
i NEED a vacation.
one of the cats, Hershey, which is the youngest one, got really sick Monday and required emergency surgery that day. the cost was over $1,200! i had to charge it since i don't have the money. i called up her original owner, my EX, and had some words with him. told him that since i just paid for her medical care, i'm not paying him back for anything he thinks i owe him anymore! he can just flush all that so called debt he thinks i have to pay him down the toilet! i havent' heard from him or seen him since.
so far that's what's been goin on.... thanks for being there for me and mom and those of you that are there for my cat! i apreciate everything! God bless!
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I am so glad you are getting some extra help.... you really need it. I am glad Sonny is trying... I suppose it is better than the way he had been acting. I am glad you told your ex that you werent doing anymore.... you had done far too much all ready..... I hope Hersey feels better soon. Thinking of you... xoxo
hugs and blessings!!!
Poor kitty, Hope Hersey is better. Glad to hear your mom is feeling much better. It is best to get up and move around a bit. Home care I think anywhere... takes their own sweet time. Even in Canada. I know that for a fact.
Thinking of you and hope you get that vacation soon!!
Hugs Nance
Oh wow it just keeps on coming. I hope you DON\'T hear any more from him. You certainly don\'t owe him any money after paying that bill - I didn\'t feel you owed him anyway but this is definitely it.
Look forward to getting a break soon so you can take care of you!
well we owed him for the dryer. it was only $600. but he was sayin i owed him for more items for hundreds more. he THOUGHT so.... yeah right. we payed him $200 so far for the dryer, but after the cat bill, i told him i wasn\'t payin anymore FOR ANYTHING. and that was that.
thanks for all the support y\'all!