Lost the baby...HELP
even though we knew that it was gone it always hurts worse when the dr. varifies it. she is gonna have to be enduced tomorrow to deliver it regular. because she had gone as far as she did she has to deliver it. she is so scared now, does anyone know what happens?? what do they do with it? what should we expect?? HELP i need to help her and i don't know how with this one. anyone out there please let me know what to do... jaime
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I wish(well not really) I had some advice for you, I will pray for her to get through tomorrow the best she can!
I\'m not sure how it is handled these days....I lost a baby at 12 wks and delivered it. I had to have a d&c to make sure everything was kosher and then I cryed....alot. Back then people weren\'t quite so sensitive. Hold your daughter and let her cry and just be there for her. I am so sorry...I wish I had a miracle for you.
I\'m sorry for her loss. My daughter lost 2 babies. I know if it is a certain weight, there has to be a burial. Neither one of hers weighed enough, but her friend lost one that was almost full term, we were with her at the funeral.
Saying a prayer for you, may God give you strength.
Stacysmom