lost it!!!

Well - it finally happened.  I saw the other woman today.  Came home from Wesleys tennis match - had him, his girlfriend, Sara and her boyfriend in the car.  His parents live down the road from us and we needed a truck to haul some things to the garbage.  Pulled into the shop and Glenns car was there, by the shop.  Then I realized it wasnt Glenn by the car, but her.  I had never seen her before.  Glenn was no where to be seen.  Wes got out to get the truck and I was shaking all over.  I rolled the window down and said "so are you the infamous Janet"?  She said yes.  I said Well, do you know you are not the only one?  ask him how Gwen is.....she just smirked and walked away.  I dont even know why I said that.  He is seeing other women as well, but why would I even tell her that.  I just concentrated on staying in the car cause I probably would have went to jail.  Two years of wonder.  How sad is that.  Anyway, after I said that and she was walking away I said at least my children know what skank looks like now.  I cant believe I did that.  Wes's girlfriend said - I love you!  that was great.  Now what a great example for the kids.  Good God - lost it.  But, in some sick way I am finally glad I know what she looks like and had a chance to say something to her.  Had I been alone I probably would have said more.....I shouldnt have said anything at all.  I could not hold my comments.  I guess It could have been worse, but for him to bring her here...and our kids to see that...what an insult.  God - I hope he gets what he deserves.  I am shaking just thinking about it now.  I need to just get over it.  Seen her, said it - move on....

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You never know when things like this will happen, the reason may be that this woman hurt you and you wanted a little revenge, perfectly natural. Wes\'s girl friend thought it was great because she supports you and knows what you were feeling. As fas em example for the kids, may not be as bad as you think, I think they know how much you have been hurt. You will get over it, you ARE moving on and good, no GREAT for you.
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You couldn\'t hold it in, and why should you? You showed restraint, good call to stay in the car! Leave this in the past and try to move on, he will get his!
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I think you are wonderful, well said. Don\'t feel bad the worst is over,just put it all behind you and move on. Amazing things lie in wait for you. take care xxxxx