Lost

I feel lost, confused, and hurt. I don't know what to do anymore. It feels as if he does not love me anymore. We are distant. What we once shared seems like it has faded. We now argue over the little things. Sometimes I wonder if he truly does still even love me anymore. I tell him my feelings and all it does at that point is makes him mad at me. I do not understand what is going on. Is it because I am now bigger than what I was when we first got married. I spent right at a year not even a month after we got married waiting on him because he went back to prison, everything he said and promised is out the window now. Sometimes I wonder if we got married to early? So many questions running through my head at this point. Once again tonight we got into another arguement. Over sex!!!! We are hardly ever intimate anymore. He says it is because I do not come to him for it, but when I do I get rejected. What am I suppose to do, how do I get that back between us?

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Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine

I think the key to any marriage lasting a long time is foreignness and communication. Leaving the past in the past and focusing on the present The present is the only thing we can change. The past is over and the future isn't here yet. When ego's get involved, it's like fighting a losing battle as the ego's mantra is, "seek and do not find" so I found that in all my communication with my significant other, I always came from a place of love and compassion instead of my ego which would tend to perceive me being unfairly treated. The heart is where our love and com[passion comes from so always listen to your heart.

God Bless