Loss of sex drive
I am on my second marriage, this one almost 2 years. I care for her and get along in general. Simply not attracted to her. Have not had intercourse in at least 2 years, probably more like 3-4. She gives me oral at times but am seldom able to touch her anyplace intimate. Mostly due to her weight (appx 375 lbs).
I feel bad for my lack of participation. And there are guilt feelings about asking or receiving oral from her since I do not feel like giving back. This really troubles me.
My first marriage was over 27 years, with several separations. Sex was very routine, and never that thrilling.
These relationships have affected my confidence in bed, something I wish to change. But how?
I have sexual thoughts and will masturbate, but not often.
Thoughts?
I feel bad for my lack of participation. And there are guilt feelings about asking or receiving oral from her since I do not feel like giving back. This really troubles me.
My first marriage was over 27 years, with several separations. Sex was very routine, and never that thrilling.
These relationships have affected my confidence in bed, something I wish to change. But how?
I have sexual thoughts and will masturbate, but not often.
Thoughts?
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