loss of mother in law and now this virus

i lost my mother in law in November of 2019, house now belongs to the 3 daughters and all the bills with it. loan of 65000. to pay off thats 200 a month for each daughter. we have 3 places to pay for know. our home in the city, county land that my parents left me. bills were all paid off. and now the house that my mother in law left for the 3 daughters. my mother in law died of cancer. trying to help clean up the house for them and the oldest daughter that is dumber then a box of rocks seems to know every thing and when we go over to clean up she excpects to want to be there when we help clean up, the oldest daughter like i said is dumb and stupid but she has to be there when we come over to clean up so the house can go up for sale. we can not keep it in the family for no one can aford the price of the house. 5 bedrooms 2 full baths, big kitchen, dinning room, big living room, full basement, 2 car garage and 2 sheds in back yard. and now we get this corona virus and the world is at a stop. wife is not working for casino is closed. the oldest daughter complains about paying bills gas and electric, the rest the 3 girls pay for, its a loan that the house is on it.   just had to have a new furnace put in. it also has 2 furnaces 1 for old house and 1 for the addtion.  i try to help my sisiter inlaw by taking all the wood to burn and she tells me she told the grandson son he can have it.  but i talked to my causin about it and he told me he does not want nothing from there for it was a family fight, between sister in law and my causins mom. its like a family affair fight. why do people have to be so bichy about things and dont know what is going on.   2 daughters have their own home and 1 is still living in the house that belongs to the 2 girls so basicly the 1 oldest daughter is renting from the other 2 daughters and the one grandson is renting from the 2 other daughters.    this makes me mad where i just want to tell the oldest daughter off so bad and say my peace about all this. but i have to keep my mouth shut.   its my wife deal to say something in which she did tell the oldest sister on how my wife feels when we come over to help clean up.   well only time will tell.  all that the oldest daughter wants to do is throw everything away and sell the house and leave to a retiremnet home.     but i will keep my peace and go to my county land and hope things will be better . thanks for your time to read this. i will try to keep control of my panic attack because of all this.  be safe and hope this virus will go away soon