losing everything

The last month has been the worst of my life hurt my back couldn't move for 2 days, then the pain intensity tripled (hence why I can't cope with it), Then to top it all my girlfriend told me shes had enough of it and so it looks like I'm going to lose her, my home and my kids.
 
I don't know what to do anymore. Does anyone want to chat could use skype  (mattyhobs) or gmail (hobs1976 at gmail.com)