looking at aprtment

My wife is going to go look at an aptment today I was hopeoing that she would change here mine but I guess that its for the best for both of us

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give her the space it mite help mine asked for me to do this, i didnt it mite have helped just make sure you protect yourself (with your kids) make sure you get them the equal time (overnight as well) cause if you do get a divorce you\'ll want joint custody and they will look at how your sharing the kids, I did this with my wife and because I made sure I had them 50/50 they granted me joint physical custody which is also how they determine child support.. you mite want to talk to a lawyer for the laws in your state..watch your back thats all just in case. space can help her think about things and help her see its not easy on her own, plus it mite give her time to miss you talk to her about ground rules in being apart (kids dating bills etc...)make sure you both know what each other expects from one another