Living with mental abuser!

I HATE income tax time!  I did not care if I get $8,000 or $1000 it ALWAYS causes trouble!  My husband waits for it and feams like a drug addict!!  This year I told him he can take it ALL,  so I don't have to worry about having to account for every cent I spend!  WELL.......I had to account for my paycheck this year!  Little bitty money compared to that check!  He's not working and has heart problems and I have to hear EVERY DAY that I'm gonna give him a heart attack or stroke!  Well now he also says he doesn't want me at the hospital during his procedure!!  It's a very confusing thing to explain in a few sentences!   I get exhausted listening to him talk and if I say something after listening for 20 minutes,  he says I interrupt him! Oh God,  enough venting