Living nite mare
Each day I wish for just once I could go home and not have to be yelled at or told that I dont have the right to call my self a mother. All I have to do is walk in the door and everything happening at that moment will be my fault. It seems that everything is my fault . The reason my kids act the way they do and so on . Everytime I stick up for my self it seems I get stronger but in the end Im the one hurting and I start to belive his words . I flip flop all the time on what to belive. Im way over due for someone to listen and give advise and allow me to take it in and go from there. No judgement just a good heart of a kind person
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Don\'t believe his words. It sounds to me that he is verbally and emotionally abusing you. You should get Patricia Evans book, the Verbally Abusive Relationship. I think it will help you to better understand what you are dealing with. You can get it at any bookstore or at the library.
You should also look into getting counseling. If you are interested I can recommend someone in Bucks County for you. She has helped me tremendously.
Stay strong!
Thank you for your advise I will look into getting that book. I love to read but most of the time I have to sneak it because he feels I have 2 kids and should not have time to read .
I, too, have read the Patricia Evans book \"The Verbally Abusive Relationship\" and most of this book totally applied to my husband. I have been living with mental cruelty for 8 years, and only after two attempts on my life and much group counseling, have I found the strength to leave, so NEVER feel that you are alone, and don\'t think for one second that I don\'t understand what you\'re going through, because I do ... please feel free to reach out anytime.