I was overhearing the boss telling my xboyfriend exactly how to do this how to do that, its somewhat difficult to hear all the time the kin dof work he has to do, when I know he's miserable. And I just take it.
Listening is difficult when I know whats making him so miserable, and neither one of us can talk it makes him stare after me with wonderment about where I go, at night, he doesn\'t know anything about my relapse, because we havent been able to talk, all i been doing is lisening..
It is hard to watch a loved one suffer, and when that happens, the best gift we can offer them is to be present and \"listen\". This is not a bad thing, it is a gift and all to forgotten skill.
Sounds like when he\'s ready, he needs to do some listening to you.
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Listening is difficult when I know whats making him so miserable, and neither one of us can talk it makes him stare after me with wonderment about where I go, at night, he doesn\'t know anything about my relapse, because we havent been able to talk, all i been doing is lisening..
It is hard to watch a loved one suffer, and when that happens, the best gift we can offer them is to be present and \"listen\". This is not a bad thing, it is a gift and all to forgotten skill.
Sounds like when he\'s ready, he needs to do some listening to you.