Lisa Ann...

Things were moving too fast and she clearly has babies on the brain.  She's age 31.  At age 51, I do NOT want kids.  She was planning on coming here and staying with me a week.  Assuming we felt as attracted to each other in person as we have been in messaging each other, there would've been much sex going on...with her goal of me cumming inside her to give her a baby...whereas I'm all about condoms.  I decided to cancel this trip.  If our future goals are not in line, while sex would feel really good, for both of us, what's the point, y'know?  One of us would just end up disappointed and miserable, her kid-deprived or me raising kids I don't want.  I tried to bring her down gently, explaining she really is a nice girl, is beautiful, guys in their 30s would love her and might be down for the whole marriage with kids thing, and that I'd still like to be friends, continue our daily chats, which she and I both enjoy.