lighter side of suffering

tuesday;1030pm uk timeit's but s funny this past week has been really busy but in between times i get to reflect on what is happening within me.i may have been sad most of the time but i think as i look back now i became a better person in a sense that i became more tolerant and patient(especially with my patients);i became kinder in many ways;and most of all became more forgiving and a lot more...and if this  was all because of all the grief i'v been through... as it was all meant to be...i then thank that i went through it!