lifestyle brings happiness//weirdness "questionable parenting site"//a page on facebook//rebecca
"Things/objects don’t bring happiness, one's lifestyle brings happiness.”
this is from the site "Questionable Parenting":
William Lewallen
William Lewallen was arrested after Tulsa police found his 18-month-old daughter locked in a metal dog cage, his naked 4-year old daughter outside on a cold afternoon and him asleep in a drug or alcohol induced stupor.
There is a photo of this guy as well. this site is UNREAL.
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so, i go to facebook and make a "page" figuring that will solve a problem. nope. instead of posting to the page, it posts to an original account. wth? i don't think it always did that. have to check some of the other pages i visit and see if it does.
it seems to be raining each afternoon, so if we are going to paint, it will have to be in the a.m.? or evening maybe. the paint says it will dry in one hour, wonder if it will?
wouldn't mind making a mirror version of facebook where you can make as many avatars as you want with no troubles. also wish someone would make a phonebook of cell phone numbers and names. amazing no one has done that yet.
my glands are still swollen and painful. very tired as well, so whatever this is, i guess i still have it. boring today as well. i have about another hour of work to do, that i plan to do next, hopefully. could be run down from not taking a day off last week, my body does that, it will shut down on its own.
berman's memoir depresses me on multiple levels. i noticed, every time i read one from my own generation or from someone i actually knew a little, its depressing. when i read one from a total stranger, it doesn't bother me at all.
dropped off moist food for morris for rn and need to do the same by c. also found a small colony that i hope someone is feeding. need to talk to the neighbors over there and see if they have fixed the animals or need help transporting or fixing. they run from me, but maybe they are friends with them. they are hungry though, and that isn't a good sign. the hotel and three surrounding houses are for sale there so their source of food could also be gone? lazy day. talked to uncle mark again about rebecca. her picture reminds me of debbies when she was nine. didn't expect that. i thought she would be darker because her mother is greek. only her eyes are dark black, she has a few freckles on her face and she is as light as steven, even her hair isn't black like it was when she was two, its more like steven's color or slightly darker. wish i would pay attention more. so cool that she is super smart. i hope being around mary didn't ruin that. love when kids are smart and have something to say a lot. its like wow! like with stefanie when she tested into gifted school at 4. a was so excited it was like she didn't know what to do, she was busting at the seams and kind of like bursting or something. even her husband couldn't believe it. the total focus with them became s for the next 15 years. seriously. today, s teaches science. too bad her mother isn't here to see that though.
this is from the site "Questionable Parenting":
William Lewallen
William Lewallen was arrested after Tulsa police found his 18-month-old daughter locked in a metal dog cage, his naked 4-year old daughter outside on a cold afternoon and him asleep in a drug or alcohol induced stupor.
There is a photo of this guy as well. this site is UNREAL.
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so, i go to facebook and make a "page" figuring that will solve a problem. nope. instead of posting to the page, it posts to an original account. wth? i don't think it always did that. have to check some of the other pages i visit and see if it does.
it seems to be raining each afternoon, so if we are going to paint, it will have to be in the a.m.? or evening maybe. the paint says it will dry in one hour, wonder if it will?
wouldn't mind making a mirror version of facebook where you can make as many avatars as you want with no troubles. also wish someone would make a phonebook of cell phone numbers and names. amazing no one has done that yet.
my glands are still swollen and painful. very tired as well, so whatever this is, i guess i still have it. boring today as well. i have about another hour of work to do, that i plan to do next, hopefully. could be run down from not taking a day off last week, my body does that, it will shut down on its own.
berman's memoir depresses me on multiple levels. i noticed, every time i read one from my own generation or from someone i actually knew a little, its depressing. when i read one from a total stranger, it doesn't bother me at all.
dropped off moist food for morris for rn and need to do the same by c. also found a small colony that i hope someone is feeding. need to talk to the neighbors over there and see if they have fixed the animals or need help transporting or fixing. they run from me, but maybe they are friends with them. they are hungry though, and that isn't a good sign. the hotel and three surrounding houses are for sale there so their source of food could also be gone? lazy day. talked to uncle mark again about rebecca. her picture reminds me of debbies when she was nine. didn't expect that. i thought she would be darker because her mother is greek. only her eyes are dark black, she has a few freckles on her face and she is as light as steven, even her hair isn't black like it was when she was two, its more like steven's color or slightly darker. wish i would pay attention more. so cool that she is super smart. i hope being around mary didn't ruin that. love when kids are smart and have something to say a lot. its like wow! like with stefanie when she tested into gifted school at 4. a was so excited it was like she didn't know what to do, she was busting at the seams and kind of like bursting or something. even her husband couldn't believe it. the total focus with them became s for the next 15 years. seriously. today, s teaches science. too bad her mother isn't here to see that though.
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I too, believe that one\'s lifestyle brings happiness. It\'s not so much what you have. It\'s WHO you have and how you treat them and how you are loved and give loving that makes you whole. I truly believe what the Bible and the Beatles said. \"All you need is love\" Right? You betcha!!
I\'ve heard lately that some very questionable, funky stuff has been going on on FB. Watch it. K? K! xo
yeah, they expanded the list of documents, passport, bank account, hmmm, since when does facebook want a person\'s bank account. very creepy, but don\'t know how to un-hack it. i added their list to my journal on ds about facebook account being hacked. really miss my account though.
also avoiding all that is toxic, especially toxic people should be part of the lifestyle. the problem would be that humans are creatures of habit...they gravitate toward anything familiar so if toxic is familiar they could end up around that even though they shouldn\'t be. like the toxic will see they aren\'t surprised by the toxic and keep coming back. there were a couple of people on here going through that, but other than police, arrest or gunning down the toxic, i have no clue how they can get away from them? move to the opposite side of the country. lol.
so asshole woke me up again this morning. i totally hate that foreign woman. it goes on and on. don\'t know if she is just NUTS, or if she is being egged on by the women south of here who are being tracked for human trafficking and grand theft, who started it to begin with or the weirdo lawyer from south florida who owes sooooo much money. what a total ass. 33 years later and it has to keep being renewed and handled by lawyers fighting lawyers, that is all that is. its ruled by a judge over and over for him to pay it. then he\'ll say the money is in trust for you, we sent the documents, then he will steal the mail/have it stolen and it goes on and on like that....its actually worse than this. sickest. the only thing that stops a thief (or crime in general) is the death penalty. anything less isn\'t enough -- though scandinavia believes in total rehab, community service and of course payment in full with interest and triple damages. our system has that too, hmmmm, 33 years later and still not paid, i don\'t think that \"rehab\" thing works. just a guess.
normally, i don\'t think about it at all. we have piles of files of weirdos. Those guys are such a bunch of dorks, that when this was originally going on in the 80\'s, the old guy actually believed that i would cancel everything else in my life and have my life focus around the money they stole/steal and the crimes they commit, like some dumb movie. no buddy, a movie is a movie. that isn\'t reality. what a fucking jerk-off. he also thought it would stop me from leaving for europe and that it would make me want to settle in south florida, even though i always made it clear, that the real estate we owned back then was solely for retirement in the future. now, its not even that. too crowded down there and international retirement is more interesting anyway.
so then the other asshole, comes over to europe when i\'m living there and shows up at my former university which is FIVE HOURS away from where i live, and steals MORE. he says he told the judge his two trips would be to pay the $5000 in traveller\'s checks that he stole ON FILM as i walked in front of an ATM, on camera. that is an open and shut case. also a certified check from my bank, for $15,000 that he stole and deposited into his own account. that is as good as it gets for a conviction and still NOTHING. hasn\'t paid it and he is still walking around. he owed back pay of $12,000 and i was told he also stole a check for $7600 from the cr firm where i used to work (though i hear so many stories on that one). then $5000 in a settlement check for a burn by a salon that he kept the entire check, i never saw one penny of that money. there is actually MORE, the list is soooo long. the judge sits there trying to explain to him he has no right to anyone else\'s money and it was like talking to a wall.
i think with thieves they get so accustomed to stealing that they have no boundaries at all. when he turned up in europe, i specifically told him there is a restraining order and deposit it into my account in miami (its an interantional bank account). he never did. he gets to spain and steals more, flies out and then comes back a second time and steals more again, plus he stole case files of an e.f. hutton case from the lawfirm i worked at, then photocopies them and returns them. its called pigeoning. they said the dork was going around miami trying to refer out that case and it doesn\'t even belong to him. and for what? what does he think he is accomplishing by doing this? so we get calls from miami and the u.s. attorney\'s office there letting us know what he is doing. what a fucking weirdo.
i actually stopped dating my favorite boyfriend the year before that because this same asshole was going around saying he was that same professional soccer player and the judge is like, mister, you are twenty years older than these people and you don\'t look anything like this man. i think that was when i realized he was totally nuts.
betteb had told me that they had trouble with him the entire time he lived in south florida and before that up north, attacking people in the hall ways and bathrooms in offices and in the courthouse, but every time they put him away, he got out and the files on his case disappear because he\'ll actually go into the clerk\'s office and destroy them or \"take them out\" and the clerks know he once worked there, so they just let him. omg! makes a mockery of the whole system.
that firm was like the living nightmare of south florida. i\'m shocked any of those people are still alive. when i got back to florida, i assumed they were all dead. seriously. lol. how long do they stalk people for? soooooo weird. don\'t you have anything better to do? i could go into the whole valL thing which i normally don\'t remember either, but that only reached a pinnacle of strange when i discovered she was also stalking patrick and bda way before any of us knew her, even from working at the courthouse. wth? really makes you wonder about people in the legal system and maybe scandinavia is right, why bother at all if its that corrupted. or that other thing, close all the prisons and put the criminals on disability checks of $1000 per month (steady income) and an ankle bracelet and community service. it would save the taxpayers $30,000 per criminal, per year, and the money could go to free health care and education. if the system is just a \"game\" the way it is now, it makes sense to just shut the system down completely. though even in scandinavia he would still have to pay what he owes, plus interest and damages and even in scandinavia they have the death penalty for psychopaths.
they tried to make it seem like \"americans\" were in on this and my boss was like, have no idea why they would be, the victims are british. lol. they steal and they don\'t even know what they are stealing. it\'d be hilarious except that its sad in general. he says to me, you realize those people are crazy and i\'m like every single firm i\'ve worked for where they show up uninvited says the same thing, they are totally crazy. very sad. how many normal people are dead, because our system lets total lunatics live?
dimit says, he\'s never missed the u.s. and i think to myself, at the time i never missed south florida. miss the climate but that is all. the lawyers from dade would say, we don\'t do business in broward. we do business everywhere else but not there. most of the time its dade, then skip broward and then palm beach county. but never broward. and you are super young and you are like, hmmm, what is this about. then valL said the same thing. she wasn\'t qualified to work anywhere but in broward it didn\'t matter so she moved there to work and it had to be at something where she didn\'t speak because if she says more than a few words people figure out what she really is. back then, i had NO IDEA what she was talking about. robyn did. and she sat there laughing like crazy over it. robyn\'s parents owned a deli in north miami. the whole thing just seemed sad back then, too weird to even bother with it. the only time i remember the rest of it is when you see them as a group in photos and its like, what the hell is this? its revolting actually.